That's one of the more surprising facts in a study released recently in the journal Pediatrics. We've all heard about sexting, but I think we tend to think of it more as a high school thing, not a middle school thing. But according to the Youth Risk Behavior Study, it's a middle school thing too.
Students who send sexts are more than three times as likely to be sexually active, whereas those who receive them are seven times more likely. Interestingly, while 20 percent reported receiving sexts, only 5 percent reported sending them, that 5 percent must be busy.
But before we freak out and label sexting as a new and crazy bad thing, there are a few not-so-surprising facts worth looking at.
First of all, 68 percent of the middle schoolers surveyed had their own cell phone and used it daily and of those who had a phone, 39 percent sent at least 100 texts a day. It was group that was more likely to send and receive sexts and to be sexually active. Another way to think about sexts as just another way socially connected youth explore and broadcast their sexuality. For some middle schoolers, sexting may even be seen as a safer alternative to actual sexual activity.
It's not without risks, given how quickly and widely messages and pictures can spread, it can have some unexpected and possibly devastating consequences. So parents and others who live and interact with youth do need to talk with them about sexting. But the more important thing we can do is talk with them generally about sex, sexuality, peer pressure, peer relationships, and the importance of making healthy, safe decisions.
The more we can keep the lines of communication open, and find non-judgmental, loving ways to teach teens to make those good decisions, the less likely it is that they will get in trouble from sexting or anything else.